Books For Better Relationships
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Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find—and Keep—Love
by:
Amir Levine
4.14 avg rating — 113,095 ratings 
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The Man's Guide to Women: Scientifically Proven Secrets from the Love Lab About What Women Really Want
by:
John M. Gottman
4.19 avg rating — 3,004 ratings 5. 
The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts
by:
Gary Chapman
4.28 avg rating — 468,545 ratings 6. 
Wired to Connect: The Surprising Link Between Brain Science and Strong, Healthy Relationships
by:
Amy Banks
3.72 avg rating — 307 ratings 7. 
Mistakes Were Made (But Not by Me): Why We Justify Foolish Beliefs, Bad Decisions, and Hurtful Acts
by:
Carol Tavris
4.04 avg rating — 28,665 ratings 7. 
Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead
by:
Brené Brown
4.29 avg rating — 236,432 ratings 9. 
Say This, Not That: A Foolproof Guide to Effective Interpersonal Communication
by:
Carl Alasko
3.55 avg rating — 310 ratings 10. 
Why Him? Why Her?: How to Find and Keep Lasting Love
by:
Helen Fisher
3.87 avg rating — 3,158 ratings 10. 
Conflict—The Unexpected Gift: Making the Most of Disputes in Life and Work
by:
Jack Hamilton
4.59 avg rating — 17 ratings 12. 
The Science of Trust: Emotional Attunement for Couples
by:
John M. Gottman
4.09 avg rating — 1,231 ratings 13. 
Insecure in Love: How Anxious Attachment Can Make You Feel Jealous, Needy, and Worried and What You Can Do About It 3.93 avg rating — 2,395 ratings
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Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence
by:
Esther Perel
4.17 avg rating — 47,203 ratings 
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Attachment in Adulthood: Structure, Dynamics, and Change
by:
Mario Mikulincer
4.31 avg rating — 67 ratings 17. 
Why We Love: The Nature and Chemistry of Romantic Love
by:
Helen Fisher
3.75 avg rating — 3,357 ratings 18. 
Born for Love: Why Empathy Is Essential--and Endangered
by:
Bruce D. Perry
4.33 avg rating — 2,871 ratings 
21. 
Stalking Death and Other Ill-Advised Dating Techniques
by:
Mercy Hollow
really liked it 4.00 avg rating — 13 ratings 
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Surrounded by Others and Yet So Alone: A Lawyer’s Case Stories of Love, Loneliness, and Litigation
by:
J.W. Freiberg
4.39 avg rating — 23 ratings 
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There Is No Good Card for This: What To Say and Do When Life Is Scary, Awful, and Unfair to People You Love
by:
Kelsey Crowe
4.19 avg rating — 3,753 ratings 27. 
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F*ck Feelings: One Shrink's Practical Advice for Managing All Life's Impossible Problems 3.46 avg rating — 5,757 ratings
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Nourishing Intimacy: Cultivating Trust, Understanding, and Love in All Our Relationships
by:
Tara Brach
4.28 avg rating — 58 ratings 
33. 
Relationship Chronicles: The Truth About The Stories We Tell Ourselves 4.75 avg rating — 4 ratings
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Focus on Friendship: How to Find the Tribe That Lifts You up and Helps You Thrive in Life (Life Level Up Book 4)
by:
Hunter Hazelton
it was amazing 5.00 avg rating — 1 rating 
33. 
Fidelity: How to Create a Loving Relationship That Lasts
by:
Thich Nhat Hanh
4.25 avg rating — 544 ratings 33. 
Liberated Love: Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire
by:
Mark Groves
4.31 avg rating — 295 ratings 
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Conflict—The Unexpected Gift : Making the Most of Disputes in Life and Work
by:
Jack Hamilton
4.59 avg rating — 17 ratings 
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The Grey Dance of Love: Step-by-Step Guide to Finding Love that Lasts
by:
George Araman
4.62 avg rating — 8 ratings 43. 
Ask a Matchmaker: Matchmaker Maria's No-Nonsense Guide to Finding Love
by:
Maria Avgitidis
4.33 avg rating — 263 ratings 45. 
Connect: What Everyone Wants, What Few of Us Find ... and the Kicker Is That It's Right There in Front of You
by:
Mark Ebinger
3.86 avg rating — 7 ratings 
46. 
The Highly Sensitive Person in Love: Understanding and Managing Relationships When the World Overwhelms You
by:
Elaine N. Aron
3.86 avg rating — 3,257 ratings 48. 
Crucial Confrontations: Tools for Talking About Broken Promises, Violated Expectations, and Bad Behavior
by:
Kerry Patterson
4.06 avg rating — 9,112 ratings 49. 
For the Love: Fighting for Grace in a World of Impossible Standards
by:
Jen Hatmaker
4.07 avg rating — 27,909 ratings 49. 
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Avoidant: How to Love (or Leave) a Dismissive Partner
by:
Jeb Kinnison
3.81 avg rating — 636 ratings 51. 
Radical Compassion: Learning to Love Yourself and Your World with the Practice of RAIN
by:
Tara Brach
4.22 avg rating — 6,091 ratings 
53. 
Radical Acceptance: Embracing Your Life With the Heart of a Buddha
by:
Tara Brach
4.15 avg rating — 33,757 ratings 55. 
On Romantic Love: Simple Truths about a Complex Emotion
by:
Berit Brogaard
3.42 avg rating — 102 ratings 
57. 
Anger: Handling a Powerful Emotion in a Healthy Way
by:
Gary Chapman
4.02 avg rating — 2,280 ratings 58. 
Passionate Marriage: Keeping Love and Intimacy Alive in Committed Relationships
by:
David Schnarch
4.15 avg rating — 3,397 ratings 
60. 
The Science of Happily Ever After: What Really Matters in the Quest for Enduring Love
by:
Ty Tashiro
3.61 avg rating — 1,096 ratings 
62. 
The All-or-Nothing Marriage: How the Best Marriages Work
by:
Eli J. Finkel
3.58 avg rating — 1,721 ratings 
64. 
There Is Nothing Wrong with You: Going Beyond Self-Hate
by:
Cheri Huber
4.17 avg rating — 2,390 ratings 64. 
When Sorry Isn't Enough: Making Things Right with Those You Love
by:
Gary Chapman
4.04 avg rating — 1,372 ratings 66. 
Predictably Irrational: The Hidden Forces That Shape Our Decisions
by:
Dan Ariely
4.12 avg rating — 129,363 ratings 66. 
Unconditional Confidence: Instructions for Meeting Any Experience with Trust and Courage
by:
Pema Chödrön
4.26 avg rating — 708 ratings 
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Pre-Suasion: A Revolutionary Way to Influence and Persuade really liked it 4.00 avg rating — 10,202 ratings
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Close Relationships: Functions, Forms and Processes
by:
Patricia Noller
really liked it 4.00 avg rating — 1 rating 71. 
The Small Big: Small Changes That Spark Big Influence
by:
Steve J. Martin
3.78 avg rating — 1,201 ratings 73. 
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Marriage, a History: From Obedience to Intimacy or How Love Conquered Marriage
by:
Stephanie Coontz
3.98 avg rating — 3,625 ratings 
76. 
The Polyvagal Theory in Therapy: Engaging the Rhythm of Regulation
by:
Deb Dana
4.36 avg rating — 1,669 ratings 77. 
201 Relationship Questions: The Couple’s Guide to Building Trust and Emotional Intimacy
by:
Barrie Davenport
3.86 avg rating — 195 ratings 
80. 
Graduating From Guilt: Six Steps to Overcome Guilt and Reclaim Your Life 3.54 avg rating — 24 ratings
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I Wanted Fries with That: How to Ask for What You Want and Get What You Need
by:
Amy Fish
3.57 avg rating — 190 ratings 84. 
The History of Sexuality, Volume 1: An Introduction
by:
Michel Foucault
4.02 avg rating — 24,961 ratings 
87. 
We Need to Talk: How to Have Conversations that Matter
by:
Celeste Headlee
3.95 avg rating — 5,203 ratings 88. 
Made to Stick: Why Some Ideas Survive and Others Die
by:
Chip Heath
3.98 avg rating — 97,579 ratings 
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Thank You for Arguing: What Aristotle, Lincoln, and Homer Simpson Can Teach Us about the Art of Persuasion
by:
Jay Heinrichs
3.57 avg rating — 7,087 ratings 91. 
Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples
by:
Harville Hendrix
4.05 avg rating — 14,199 ratings 92. 
Meeting Design: For Managers, Makers, and Everyone
by:
Kevin M. Hoffman
3.65 avg rating — 189 ratings 93. 
Intellectual Foreplay: A Book of Questions for Lovers and Lovers-to-Be 3.95 avg rating — 237 ratings
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Anticlimax: A Feminist Perspective on the Sexual Revolution
by:
Sheila Jeffreys
3.96 avg rating — 135 ratings 95. 
The Spinster and Her Enemies: Feminism and Sexuality 1880-1930
by:
Sheila Jeffreys
4.09 avg rating — 148 ratings 96. 
Love Talks: 3 Books In 1 (Conversation Starter Books 1-3)
by:
Jed Jurchenko
4.20 avg rating — 5 ratings 97. 
How to Create a Magical Relationship: The 3 Simple Ideas that Will Instantaneously Transform Your Love Life
by:
Ariel Kane
3.75 avg rating — 67 ratings 98. 
The Confidence Code: The Science and Art of Self-Assurance – What Women Should Know
by:
Katty Kay
3.72 avg rating — 16,259 ratings 99. 
Please Understand Me II: Temperament, Character, Intelligence
by:
David Keirsey
4.17 avg rating — 6,676 ratings 100. 
What's Making You Angry?: 10 Steps to Transforming Anger So Everyone Wins (Nonviolent Communication Guides)
by:
Shari Klein
3.68 avg rating — 31 ratings