SEX- READ A DAMN BOOK
3. 
She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman
by:
Ian Kerner
4.08 avg rating — 12,137 ratings 
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Asking for It: The Alarming Rise of Rape Culture and What We Can Do about It
by:
Kate Harding
4.37 avg rating — 4,206 ratings 7. 
Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism
by:
Philip Miller
4.02 avg rating — 1,411 ratings 
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How to Give Her Absolute Pleasure: Totally Explicit Techniques Every Woman Wants Her Man to Know
by:
Lou Paget
3.78 avg rating — 329 ratings 
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Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters—And How to Get It
by:
Laurie Mintz
4.26 avg rating — 2,469 ratings 
11. 
On Blossoming: Frank and Practical Advice on Our Bodies, Sexual Health, Sensuality, Pleasure, Orgasm, and More
by:
Gia Lynne
4.14 avg rating — 21 ratings 11. 
Laid and Confused: Why We Tolerate Bad Sex and How to Stop
by:
Maria Yagoda
3.86 avg rating — 370 ratings 
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The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities
by:
Dossie Easton
3.94 avg rating — 26,256 ratings 26. 
Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships
by:
Tristan Taormino
4.08 avg rating — 4,069 ratings 27. 
Real Live Nude Girl: Chronicles of Sex-Positive Culture
by:
Carol Queen
4.05 avg rating — 523 ratings 
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The Feminist Porn Book: The Politics of Producing Pleasure
by:
Tristan Taormino
3.98 avg rating — 626 ratings 33. 
Pleasure Map: A Q&A, Pick-Your-Passion Approach for Hotter, Naughtier, More Adventurous Sex
by:
Shanna Katz
4.27 avg rating — 15 ratings 34. 
Good Vibrations Guide to Sex: The Most Complete Sex Manual Ever Written
by:
Cathy Winks
4.16 avg rating — 463 ratings 
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Sex at Dawn: The Prehistoric Origins of Modern Sexuality
by:
Christopher Ryan
3.98 avg rating — 31,324 ratings 37. 
Yes Means Yes!: Visions of Female Sexual Power and A World Without Rape
by:
Jaclyn Friedman
4.20 avg rating — 5,237 ratings 38. 
Ultimate Guide to Fellatio: How to Go Down on a Man and Give Him Mind-Blowing Pleasure
by:
Violet Blue
3.78 avg rating — 245 ratings 39. 
The Mistress Manual: The Good Girl's Guide to Female Dominance
by:
Mistress Lorelei
3.79 avg rating — 565 ratings 40. 
The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus: How to Go Down on a Woman and Give Her Exquisite Pleasure
by:
Violet Blue
3.97 avg rating — 294 ratings 
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Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot: Not Your Mother's Orgasm Book!
by:
Deborah Sundahl
4.22 avg rating — 337 ratings 43. 
Wild Side Sex: The Book of Kink: Educational, Sensual, and Entertaining Essays
by:
Midori
4.08 avg rating — 170 ratings 
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The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability: For All of Us Who Live with Disabilities, Chronic Pain, and Illness
by:
Miriam Kaufman
4.10 avg rating — 326 ratings 47. 
Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life
by:
Emily Nagoski
4.28 avg rating — 81,149 ratings 
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Woman on Fire: 9 Elements to Wake Up Your Erotic Energy, Personal Power, and Sexual Intelligence
by:
Amy Jo Goddard
4.20 avg rating — 186 ratings 
54. 
He Comes Next: The Thinking Woman's Guide to Pleasuring a Man
by:
Ian Kerner
3.69 avg rating — 1,013 ratings 
60. 
Thinking Kink: The Collision of BDSM, Feminism and Popular Culture
by:
Catherine Scott
3.90 avg rating — 72 ratings 61. 
Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge
by:
Tristan Taormino
4.07 avg rating — 791 ratings 62. 
Safe, Sane, and Consensual: Contemporary Perspectives on Sadomasochism 3.83 avg rating — 41 ratings
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What You Really Really Want: The Smart Girl's Shame-Free Guide to Sex and Safety
by:
Jaclyn Friedman
4.03 avg rating — 458 ratings