Best BDSM non-fiction
1. 
Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism
by:
Philip Miller
4.02 avg rating — 1,411 ratings 
5. 
Domination & Submission: The BDSM Relationship Handbook
by:
Michael Makai
3.94 avg rating — 499 ratings 
7. 
Different Loving: A Complete Exploration of the World of Sexual Dominance and Submission
by:
Gloria G. Brame
3.92 avg rating — 860 ratings 
9. 
Diary of a Submissive: A Modern True Tale of Sexual Awakening (The Diary of a Submissive #1)
by:
Sophie Morgan
3.45 avg rating — 3,564 ratings 
12. 
Two Knotty Boys Showing You the Ropes: A Step-by-Step, Illustrated Guide for Tying Sensual and Decorative Rope Bondage
by:
Two Knotty Boys
4.18 avg rating — 731 ratings 
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Sensuous Magic: A Guide to S/M for Adventurous Couples
by:
Patrick Califia
3.86 avg rating — 162 ratings 16. 
Protocol: The Handbook for the Female Slave
by:
Robert J. Rubel
really liked it 4.00 avg rating — 90 ratings 
21. 
Master/Slave Relations: Handbook of Theory and Practice
by:
Robert J. Rubel
3.97 avg rating — 71 ratings 
23. 
Conquer Me: girl-to-girl wisdom about fulfilling your submissive desires
by:
Kacie Cunningham
4.14 avg rating — 382 ratings 24. 
Protocols: A Variety of Views (Power Exchange Books Resource Series)
by:
Robert J. Rubel
3.87 avg rating — 30 ratings 
27. 
Discipline: Adding Rules & Discipline To Your BDSM Relationship
by:
Lily Lloyd
4.10 avg rating — 21 ratings 
34. 
The Mistress Manual: The Good Girl's Guide to Female Dominance
by:
Mistress Lorelei
3.79 avg rating — 565 ratings 
37. 
The BDSM Coloring Book: An Activity Book For Kinksters With Crayons
by:
Michael Makai
4.24 avg rating — 33 ratings 38. 
41. 
Techniques of Pleasure: BDSM and the Circuits of Sexuality
by:
Margot Weiss
3.72 avg rating — 125 ratings 
43. 
The Color of Kink: Black Women, BDSM, and Pornography (Sexual Cultures, 26)
by:
Ariane Cruz
4.06 avg rating — 66 ratings 44. 
The Art Of Sensual Female Dominance: A Guide for Women
by:
Claudia Varrin
3.99 avg rating — 110 ratings 
49. 
Sexual Outsiders: Understanding BDSM Sexualities and Communities
by:
David M. Ortmann
4.08 avg rating — 158 ratings 50. 
The Social Construction of Sexuality and Perversion: Deconstructing Sadomasochism
by:
Andrea Beckmann
3.33 avg rating — 3 ratings 51. 
Living M/s; A Book for Masters, slaves, and Their Relationships
by:
Dan Williams
4.06 avg rating — 158 ratings 
53. 
Bdsm Basics for Submissives - Dealing With the Mental and Emotional Side of Submission 3.99 avg rating — 87 ratings
58. 
Sadomasochism in Everyday Life: The Dynamics of Power and Powerlessness
by:
Lynn S. Chancer
3.75 avg rating — 53 ratings 
60. 
The Heart of Dominance: A Guide to Practicing Consensual Dominance
by:
Anton Fulmen
4.57 avg rating — 344 ratings 61. 
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Fashion & Fetishism: Corsets, Tight-Lacing and Other Forms of Body-Sculpture
by:
David Kunzle
3.98 avg rating — 59 ratings 63. 
Wild Side Sex: The Book of Kink: Educational, Sensual, and Entertaining Essays
by:
Midori
4.08 avg rating — 170 ratings 
66. 
BDSM Basics for Submissives - Dealing with the Mental and Emotional Side of BDSM 3.99 avg rating — 87 ratings
67. 
Taking Back Your Marriage: How To Get Your husband to Fall in Love with You 3.90 avg rating — 10 ratings
70. 
BDSM Basics for Beginners - A Guide for Dominants and Submissives Starting to Explore the Lifestyle 4.01 avg rating — 111 ratings
71. 
The English Vice: Beating, Sex and Shame in Victorian England and After
by:
Ian Gibson
3.62 avg rating — 8 ratings 72. 
Punishment by Enema - Training a Sexual Submissive
by:
Paul Damas
liked it 3.00 avg rating — 5 ratings 
74. 
Ferocious Romance: What My Encounters with the Right Taught Me About Sex, God, and Fury
by:
Donna Minkowitz
3.57 avg rating — 37 ratings 75. 
Be Careful What You Wish For: The Ultimate Guide to Male Chastity
by:
Sarah Jameson
3.77 avg rating — 35 ratings 76. 
Don We Now Our Gay Apparel: Gay Men's Dress in the Twentieth Century
by:
Shaun Cole
3.97 avg rating — 36 ratings 76. 
Mighty Lewd Books: The Development of Pornography in Eighteenth-Century England
by:
Julie Peakman
3.95 avg rating — 21 ratings 
80. 
UNITED KINKDOM: The Truth About The BDSM Scene
by:
I.M. Spartacus
it was amazing 5.00 avg rating — 4 ratings 
80. 
The Scarlett Letters: My Secret Year of Men in an L.A. Dungeon
by:
Jenny Nordbak
4.12 avg rating — 570 ratings 80. 
Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge
by:
Tristan Taormino
4.07 avg rating — 791 ratings 80. 
Somatics for Rope Bottoms: 12 embodied inquiries for transforming your experience in rope bondage
by:
Bettina Hindes
4.64 avg rating — 75 ratings 
80. 
Playing to Lose: How a Jehovah's Witness Became a Submissive BDSM Model
by:
Ariel Anderssen
4.61 avg rating — 82 ratings 
89. 
The Little Guide to Getting Tied Up: Tips for Rope Bondage Bottoms
by:
Evie Vane
4.23 avg rating — 145 ratings 91. 
Bdsm Basics for Submissives - Dealing with the Mental and Emotional Side of Submission 3.99 avg rating — 87 ratings
92. 
Aesthetic Sexuality: A Literary History of Sadomasochism
by:
Romana Byrne
3.67 avg rating — 18 ratings 93. 
The Way of the Pleasure Slave: Erotic Slavehood for the Submissive Woman
by:
Andrew James
really liked it 4.00 avg rating — 10 ratings 94. 
Paradigms of Power: Styles of Master/slave Relationships
by:
Raven Kaldera
4.10 avg rating — 39 ratings 