Sex, Love & Intimacy
1. 
The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate
by:
Gary Chapman
4.28 avg rating — 468,550 ratings 2. 
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country's Foremost Relationship Expert
by:
John M. Gottman
4.25 avg rating — 33,917 ratings 3. 
Mating in Captivity: Reconciling the Erotic and the Domestic
by:
Esther Perel
4.17 avg rating — 47,206 ratings 
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Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships
by:
Tristan Taormino
4.08 avg rating — 4,068 ratings 6. 
Domination & Submission: The BDSM Relationship Handbook
by:
Michael Makai
3.94 avg rating — 499 ratings 
8. 
The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities
by:
Dossie Easton
3.94 avg rating — 26,255 ratings 9. 
Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life
by:
Emily Nagoski
4.28 avg rating — 81,130 ratings 
12. 
If the Buddha Dated: A Handbook for Finding Love on a Spiritual Path
by:
Charlotte Kasl
4.13 avg rating — 2,976 ratings 
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Legacy of the Heart: The Spiritual Advantage of a Painful Childhood
by:
Wayne Muller
4.36 avg rating — 264 ratings 16. 
The Good Vibrations Guide to Sex: The Most Complete Sex Manual Ever Written
by:
Cathy Winks
4.16 avg rating — 463 ratings 
19. 
The Dance of Anger: A Woman's Guide to Changing the Patterns of Intimate Relationships
by:
Harriet Lerner
4.11 avg rating — 28,518 ratings 
21. 
Sex at Dawn: The Prehistoric Origins of Modern Sexuality
by:
Christopher Ryan
3.98 avg rating — 31,321 ratings 
23. 
The Strange Tools of Human Communication: The Voice, the Pen, and the Lyre
by:
Ruth Finnegan
it was amazing 5.00 avg rating — 8 ratings 
25. 
Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life
by:
Henry Cloud
4.21 avg rating — 85,064 ratings 25. 
For Women Only: What You Need to Know about the Inner Lives of Men
by:
Shaunti Feldhahn
4.04 avg rating — 29,269 ratings 27. 
Soul Without Shame: A Guide to Liberating Yourself from the Judge Within
by:
Byron Brown
4.05 avg rating — 467 ratings 
31. 
Sis, Love the Lord AND ENJOY THAT MAN: Tips for Awesome Sex with your Husband
by:
Ms. Essie
it was amazing 5.00 avg rating — 13 ratings 32. 
Romantic Activities and Surprises: 800 Dating Ideas (Win the Heart of a Woman of Your Dreams, #4–6)
by:
Sahara Sanders
4.20 avg rating — 10 ratings 33. 
Why Men Want Sex and Women Need Love: Solving the Mystery of Attraction
by:
Allan Pease
3.70 avg rating — 2,803 ratings 33. 
Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love
by:
Sue Johnson
4.12 avg rating — 21,291 ratings 33. 
Mars and Venus in the Bedroom: A Guide to Lasting Romance and Passion
by:
John Gray
3.82 avg rating — 2,130 ratings 36. 
The Dance of Deception: A Guide to Authenticity and Truth-Telling in Women's Relationships
by:
Harriet Lerner
4.01 avg rating — 763 ratings 
38. 
The Dance of Intimacy: A Woman's Guide to Courageous Acts of Change in Key Relationships
by:
Harriet Lerner
4.03 avg rating — 10,024 ratings 39. 
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For Men Only: A Straightforward Guide to the Inner Lives of Women
by:
Shaunti Feldhahn
4.14 avg rating — 7,169 ratings 42. 
The Art of Seduction: Keys to Mastery / A Pocket Book for a Real Man (Win the Heart of a Woman of Your Dreams, #3)
by:
Sahara Sanders
4.33 avg rating — 12 ratings 43. 
The Honest Book of International Dating / Smart Dating Strategies for Men (Win the Heart of a Woman of Your Dreams, #1)
by:
Sahara Sanders
3.83 avg rating — 12 ratings 44. 
Dating Communication Tips for Men (Win the Heart of a Woman of Your Dreams, #2)
by:
Sahara Sanders
3.88 avg rating — 16 ratings 45. 
Why We Love: The Nature and Chemistry of Romantic Love
by:
Helen Fisher
3.75 avg rating — 3,357 ratings 46. 
How to Be an Adult in Relationships: The Five Keys to Mindful Loving
by:
David Richo
4.13 avg rating — 7,301 ratings 46. 
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A Return to Love: Reflections on the Principles of "A Course in Miracles" 4.25 avg rating — 36,990 ratings
51. 
Cupid's Poisoned Arrow: From Habit to Harmony in Sexual Relationships
by:
Marnia Robinson
4.10 avg rating — 556 ratings 52. 
Passionate Marriage: Keeping Love and Intimacy Alive in Committed Relationships
by:
David Schnarch
4.15 avg rating — 3,397 ratings 
53. 
Making Love, Not Porn: A Romantic, Natural, and Emotional Guide to Sex in the 21st Century
by:
Jonathon Jones
3.54 avg rating — 13 ratings 
53. 
The Masculine Mind: Alpha Male Life Lessons on Careers, Money, Relationships & Women
by:
Dylan Thrasher
3.73 avg rating — 22 ratings 53. 
More Than Two: A Practical Guide to Ethical Polyamory
by:
Eve Rickert
4.23 avg rating — 4,566 ratings 53. 
Men Don't Love Women Like You: The Brutal Truth About Dating, Relationships, and How to Go from Placeholder to Game Changer
by:
G.L. Lambert
really liked it 4.00 avg rating — 1,097 ratings 
53. 
Intimacy on the Plate: 200+ Aphrodisiac Recipes to Spice Up Your Love Life at Home Tonight
by:
Olga Petrenko
4.15 avg rating — 41 ratings 53. 
Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex
by:
Angela Chen
4.34 avg rating — 18,722 ratings 
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Love Worth Making: How to Have Ridiculously Great Sex in a Lasting Relationship
by:
Stephen Snyder
4.15 avg rating — 1,250 ratings 
68. 
Plays Well in Groups: A Journey Through the World of Group Sex
by:
Katherine Frank
3.52 avg rating — 42 ratings 
69. 
Love Life for Every Married Couple: How to Fall in Love, Stay in Love, Rekindle Your Love
by:
Ed Wheat
4.08 avg rating — 399 ratings 69. 
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Passion and Purity: Learning to Bring Your Love Life Under Christ's Control
by:
Elisabeth Elliot
4.14 avg rating — 20,373 ratings 
75. 
What Does Polyamory Look Like?: Polydiverse Patterns of Loving and Living in Modern Polyamorous Relationships
by:
Mim Chapman
3.46 avg rating — 35 ratings 76. 
Love In Abundance: a counselor's advice on open relationshis
by:
Kathy Labriola
3.92 avg rating — 135 ratings 77. 
Heal Your Body: The Mental Causes for Physical Illness and the Metaphysical Way to Overcome Them
by:
Louise L. Hay
4.33 avg rating — 20,672 ratings 78. 
Redefining Our Relationships: Guidelines for Responsible Open Relationships
by:
Wendy-O Matik
3.79 avg rating — 497 ratings 79. 
There Is Nothing Wrong with You: Going Beyond Self-Hate
by:
Cheri Huber
4.17 avg rating — 2,390 ratings 80. 
The Modern Kama Sutra: The Ultimate Guide to the Secrets of Erotic Pleasure
by:
Kamini Thomas
3.75 avg rating — 303 ratings 
82. 
The Mastery of Love: A Practical Guide to the Art of Relationship: A Toltec Wisdom Book
by:
Miguel Ruiz
4.27 avg rating — 58,429 ratings 83. 
Broken Open: How Difficult Times Can Help Us Grow
by:
Elizabeth Lesser
4.03 avg rating — 8,188 ratings 
87. 
Healing Sex: A Mind-Body Approach to Healing Sexual Trauma
by:
Staci Haines
4.30 avg rating — 540 ratings 
87. 
8 Reasons for Divorce, The: Why Marriages Fail and How to Ensure That Yours Doesn’t
by:
Thomas G. Papps
4.20 avg rating — 10 ratings 87. 
Your Single Treasure: Good News About Singles and Sexuality
by:
Rick Stedman
really liked it 4.00 avg rating — 15 ratings 
87. 
199 Ways To Improve Your Relationships, Marriage, and Sex Life
by:
L.B. Sommer
3.67 avg rating — 18 ratings 
87. 
From Hurt to Happiness: Emotional Rescue from the Ground Up
by:
Mr Mike Van
4.27 avg rating — 95 ratings 
