Relationship Anarchy Reading List
1. 
Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy
by:
Jessica Fern
4.37 avg rating — 14,847 ratings 2. 
Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life
by:
Emily Nagoski
4.28 avg rating — 81,130 ratings 3. 
Radical Belonging: How to Survive + Thrive in an Unjust World
by:
Lindo Bacon
4.08 avg rating — 460 ratings 4. 
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Rewriting the Rules: An Anti Self-Help Guide to Love, Sex and Relationships
by:
Meg-John Barker
4.43 avg rating — 276 ratings 
10. 
Mating in Captivity: Reconciling the Erotic and the Domestic
by:
Esther Perel
4.17 avg rating — 47,206 ratings 10. 
Abolish the Family: A Manifesto for Care and Liberation
by:
Sophie Lewis
3.68 avg rating — 1,531 ratings 12. 
Marriage, a History: From Obedience to Intimacy or How Love Conquered Marriage
by:
Stephanie Coontz
3.98 avg rating — 3,625 ratings 
14. 
Designer Relationships: A Guide to Happy Monogamy, Positive Polyamory, and Optimistic Open Relationships
by:
Mark A. Michaels
3.69 avg rating — 837 ratings 
16. 
Hunt, Gather, Parent: What Ancient Cultures Can Teach Us About the Lost Art of Raising Happy, Helpful Little Humans 4.15 avg rating — 27,375 ratings
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The Art of Gathering: How We Meet and Why It Matters
by:
Priya Parker
3.96 avg rating — 25,934 ratings 18. 
The Polyamory Breakup Book: Causes, Prevention, and Survival
by:
Kathy Labriola
3.95 avg rating — 357 ratings 19. 
Life Is Friends: A Complete Guide to the Lost Art of Connecting in Person
by:
Jeanne Martinet
3.30 avg rating — 127 ratings 20. 
Tiny Beautiful Things: Advice on Love and Life from Dear Sugar
by:
Cheryl Strayed
4.15 avg rating — 137,879 ratings 